LETTING GO

A forwarded message from jlois email:

There can never be any relationship that can claim immunity from failure.
People are sometimes torn apart by forces beyond their control.
Many of us make promises that we could not keep.(hhmm.. thats one thing i hate.. i wont give a promise that i know i wont keep..)
We vow to love someone forever only to find ourselves falling for someone else.( loving is a choice.. its not some feeling that you cant control)
The attraction can be intense that we become insensitive to the needs of others. (is it attraction or obsession?)
We resist reasons and insist on passion.
Many of us who have been left by a beloved continue to wallow in self-pity, asking what went wrong, waste our time searching for answers that may never be revealed to us. (we all “grieve” in our own pace..)
Why can’t we just accept that LOVE doesn’t give us the license to own a person, that LOVE doesn’t guarantee permanence?
There are times when we just have to let go of someone who means the world to us - not because we want to but because we have to, because it’s the right thing to do.
Let us remember that we cannot force anyone to love us when they don’t want to love us anymore. (thats cruel..)
We cannot beg someone to stay when he wants to leave and be with someone else. (exactly.. but when do you know that its time to let go?)
This is what LOVE is all about:  SACRIFICE…
It is about learning.
It is about accepting everything.
The end of LOVE is not the end of LIFE.
It should be the beginning of understanding that love leaves for a reason.
LOVE leaves a lesson and it is only when we learn from it that we are able to gain the
wisdom and the courage to move on and find LOVE again.