its sad when the people you know become people you knew, when you cant walk right past someone as if they were never a big part of your life..how you used to be able to talk for hours, and now you can barely even look at them. its just sad how things change, so much.

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Tuesday, January 10, 2006

ive never really been a fan of new year’s resolutions..

ive never been a planner either..

i prefer living for the day… 

i dont like making promises i might not be able to keep…

but i do want to, in my own lil way,

change some things in my life for the better.

these are not, i repeat, promises.

so please dont take it against if im not even close to fulfilling it..

but bear in mind that i do what to change it..

pretty confusing..whatever..

i wont be calling this my “to-do list” either  since i really have no idea when im gonna start any of these.

i juz know that these are the things i wanna start doing.. or stop doing.. whatever!

1. ill try to be more patient. there was this time at work when i got lotsa bad, stupid(sori.. juz cant help it) calls. not to mention having deaf callers who have no idea what a colon looks like…at times i really think its a job from hell.. then what struck me is that there was this aquaintance of mine who called me an “irate agent.” i dunno if he was being funny or what.. but it did get to me? am i really like that? hindi naman ah. its juz that its one of those days when u really get ur share of the bullshit.

2. ill try to be less matampuhin. i remember one time mushy and i had this argument and muntik na nga kaming hindi magkita at that time due to sum misunderstanding. yup. there u go misunderstanding nga. hindi kasi nagkakaliwanagan eh. ang sa akin lang naman.. tell me whats happening coz hindi naman ako manghuhula!!!i generally have a happy disposition =). i could be a clown, im really laid back, i take things easy. but when u say sumthin that really hurt my feelings, id need some time to recuperate. sumtimes it would take a few mins, sumtimes it would take hours, but never a day. i juz wanna have sum time to sort things out =).

3. less shopping. yes.juz less ok? i dint say i wont go shopping anymore. are u kidding? lol.

4. save million and millions. i dunno how in heavens ill do that, but thats what i wanna do hihi.

5. sleep less. lately eversince we changed shifts i always slept for at least 7 hrs in a day. thats a lot!!! i wanna go back to my old habit of sleeping in bout 4 hrs or less. im able to do more with that.

6. read more. during the holidays i got lots of books as gifts. i have like 12 or more in line that i shud read and i cant even freakin finish the one i have fer like 2 weeks now. less sleep will lead to more time reading. well. hopefully.

7. go online more! yes yes!! i miss playin triv and making goss wiv mah frens and dLing mp3s!!! *sigh*

8. relearn how to bake. last christmas my mom got me this baking stuff. it used to be my hobby back then, eons ago.

9. sort unwanted clothes, shoes, bags, etc. i know that a norman human being would probly do this like every month or so. well. im not normal. lol. i rarely go through my closet, i ransack it… so along with sorting would be fixing already.

10. wear less dangling earings. i promised myself id try to be less arty this year.. so il be wearin more of those studs instead of those dangly stuff.

11. id sing more. tis different when ur listening to music, its different when ur singing. i miss that feeling.

12. go anywhere outside luzon. i dont like the fact i have been able to travel to other countries and yet not be able to  

 

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Dating Strengths and Weaknesses Quiz

do you have what it takes to hook up with mr/ms right?
hhmm.. check this survey out.. hihi…
this is what it says about me 

 

  
 

 

Dating Strengths Dating Weaknesses
1. Sense of Humor - 85.7%
2. Financial Situation - 69.2%
3. Confidence - 66.7%
4. Flirtiness - 62.5%
5. Spirituality - 61.5%
1. Temper - 62.5%
2. Vanity - 58.3%
3. Appearance - 55.6%

Dating Strengths Explained
Sense of Humor - Men are attracted to people with a good sense of humor. Be sure to put yours on display!
Financial Situation - You’ve got your financial situation under control, which is a very desirable quality. Be careful to avoid men who are only interested in your money.
Confidence - You are sure of yourself and confident of your abilities. Displays of confidence go a long way when attracting a date.
Flirtiness - Flirting is a good way to break the ice, and you are a pro at it. Being flirtatious will open up many dating opportunities.
Spirituality - Your spiritual side brings you peace and balance, and keeps you grounded. This is attractive, as you can help reinforce this quality in other people.
Dating Weaknesses Explained
Temper - You need to work on controlling your temper. Don’t let your anger get the best of you. A calm and rational persona is important when dating.
Vanity - Learn to put a lower priority on looks. Appearance is, of course, important, but vanity is undesireable. The only people you will attract are the superficial.
Appearance - Devoting a greater effort at making good first impressions is a must. Try to be fit and develop a style if you want to catch a man’s attention.
Dating Strengths and Weaknesses Quiz
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Your Loneliness Quotient Test Results

Loneliness Quotient: 22%

Your Personalized Assessment Report:

Your LQ score suggests your relationships are rather healthy. Your score is on the lower end of the spectrum. Let’s take a look at each area of interest. You are okay in your relations with your friends. This is good. However, your family relations, or lack thereof, are partly to blame for your loneliness. This is an area that can use improvement. On the bright side, your current romantic situation is not a source of loneliness in your life. This is a bright spot for you. You definitely don’t have any major insecurity issues holding you back, so your pursuit of elimating loneliness will not be held back by this potential pitfall.

Take the Loneliness Quotient Test at Dating Diversions

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The Seven Deadly Sins Quiz

Greed: Medium  
Gluttony: Medium  
Wrath: High  
Sloth: High  
Envy: Low  
Lust: Low  
Pride: High  

The Seven Deadly Sins Quiz

hhmmmm.. lets look into the high scores i got 

Definitions of sloth on the Web:

* a disinclination to work or exert yourself

* any of several slow-moving arboreal mammals of South America and Central America; they hang from branches back downward and feed on leaves and fruits

* apathy and inactivity in the practice of virtue (personified as one of the deadly sins)

—> hey am not a lazy ass ok? i juz dont want tiring myself

Definitions of wrath on the Web: * intense anger (usually on an epic scale)

* belligerence aroused by a real or supposed wrong (personified as one of the deadly sins)

—> i am usually patient with the calls i get at work.. but of course a person can only take so much.. as for my day to day life, i juz dont want to take shit from anyone.. i dont like anyone taking advantage of anyone.. blah blah

Definitions of pride on the Web:

* a feeling of self-respect and personal worth

* satisfaction with your (or another’s) achievements; “he takes pride in his son’s success”

* the trait of being spurred on by a dislike of falling below your standards

* unreasonable and inordinate self-esteem (personified as one of the deadly sins)

—> me proud? i dont think i am.. im juz assertive.. i fight for what i believe in..

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i juz hate being pushed away.if theres sumthin wrong id appreciate it if ud tell me.

 

 

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