its sad when the people you know become people you knew, when you cant walk right past someone as if they were never a big part of your life..how you used to be able to talk for hours, and now you can barely even look at them. its just sad how things change, so much.

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men and christmas trees

Saturday, December 31, 2005

*giggles*

this is funny

A family is at the dinner table. The son asks his father, “Dad, how many kinds of boobies are there?

The father, surprised, answers, “Well, son, there’s three kinds of breasts.
In her twenties, a women’s breasts are like melons, round and firm.
In her thirties to forties, they are like pears, still nice but hanging a bit.
After fifty, they are like onions.”

Onions?”

“Yes, you see them and they make you cry”

This infuriated his wife and daughter so the daughter said,

“Mum, how many kinds of ‘willies’ are there?”

The mother, surprised, smiles and answers, “Well dear, a man goes through three phases.
In his twenties, his willy is like an oak tree, mighty and hard.
In his thirties and forties, it is a birch, flexible but reliable.
After his fifties, it is like a Christmas tree.”

“A Christmas tree?”

“Yes, dead from the root up and the balls are for decoration only.”

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99 SECRETS GIRLS HAVE TO KNOW ABOUT GUYS

Friday, December 30, 2005

1. Guys don’t actually look after good-looking girls. They prefer neat and presentable girls.
2. Guys hate flirts.
3. A guy can like you for a minute, and then forget you afterwards.
4. When a guy says he doesn’t understand you, it simply means you’re not thinking the way he is.
5. “Are you doing something?” or “Have you eaten already?” are the first usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get out from stammering.
6. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about. (really now?)

7. When a guy really likes you, he’ll disregard all your bad characteristics.
8. Guys go crazy over a girl’s smile.
9. Guys will do anything just to get the girl’s attention.
10. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend.
11. When guys want to meet your parents. Let them.(ahm.. in time)
12. Guys want to tell you many things but they can’t. And they sure have one habit to gain courage and spirit to tell you many things and it is drinking! (hell no.. not all the time..)
13. Guys cry!!!
14. Don’t provoke(irritate) the guy to heat up. Believe me. He will.
15. Guys can never dream and hope too much.
16. Guys usually try hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and  this makes it harder for them to accept their defeat.
17. When you touch a guy’s heart, there’s no turning back.
18. Giving a guy a hanging message like “You know what?!..uh…never mind!” would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking.
19. Guys go crazy when girls touch their hands.
20. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.
21. When a guy makes a prolonged “umm” or makes any excuses when you’re asking him to do you a favor, he’s actually saying that he doesn’t like you and he can’t lay down the card for you. (aw.. poor gurl)

22. When a girl says “no”, a guy hears it as “try again tomorrow.” (patience is a virtue nga daw…)

23. You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly.
24. Guys hate gays! (hay nako)
25. Guys love their moms. (that i admire =) )

26. A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses.
27. A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn’t
mean that the guy likes her.

28 You can never understand him unless you listen to him.
29. If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime. He does.
30. Beware. Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of the earth faster than girls can.
31. Like Eve, girls are guys’ weaknesses.
32. Guys are very open about themselves.
33. It’s good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don’t
let him wait that long.

34. No guy is bad when he is courting
35. Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty. Even a small dot.
36. Guys really admire girls that they like even if they’re not that
much pretty.

37. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.
38. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to
listen to him. You don’t need to give advice.

39. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases
you.

40. A guy finds ways to keep you off from linking with someone else.
41. Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts.
42. Guys try to find the stuffed toy a girl wants but would unluckily get the wrong one.
43. Guys virtually brag about anything.
44. Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them.
45. Guys think too much.
46. Guys’ fantasies are unlimited.
47. Girls’ height doesn’t really matter to a guy but her weight does!
48. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too
possessive. So watch out girls!!!

49. When a girl makes the boy suffer during courtship, it would be
hard for him to let go of that girl.

50. It’s not easy for a guy to let go of his girlfriend after they
broke up especially when they’ve been together for 3 years or more.

**51. You have to tell a guy what you really want before getting
involved with that guy.

52. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he’s
too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won’t be matured and grow up.

53. When an unlikable circumstance comes, guys blame themselves a lot more than girls do. They could even hurt themselves physically.
54. Guys have strong passion to change but have weak will power.
55. Guys are tigers in their peer groups but become tamed pussycats with their girlfriends.
56. When a guy pretends to be calm, check if he’s sweating. You’ll
probably see that he is nervous.

57. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl. He really is.
58. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he’s just actually saying,”Please come and listen to me”
59. Guys don’t really have final decisions.
60. When a guy loves you, bring out the best in him.
61. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him.
62. If a guy has been kept shut or silent, say something.
63. Guys believe that there’s no such thing as love at first sight,
but court the girls anyway and then realize at the end that he is
wrong.

64. Guys like femininity not feebleness.*
65. Guys don’t like girls who punch harder than they do.
66. A guy may instantly know if the girl likes him but can never be
sure unless the girl tells him.

67. A guy would waste his time over video games and basketball, the way a girl would do over her romance novels and make-ups.
68. Guys love girls who can cook or bake.
69. Guys like girls who are like their moms. No kidding!
70. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.
71. A guy’s friend knows everything about him. Use this to your
advantage.

72. Don’t be a snob. Guys may easily give up on the first sign of
rejection.

73. Don’t be biased. Try loving a guy without prejudice and you’ll be surprised.***********
74. Girls who bathe in their eau de perfumes do more repelling than
attracting guys.

75. Guys are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic
is about girls.

76. Guys don’t comprehend the statement “Get lost” too well.
77. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable
decisions but still love them more.

78. When a guy gives a crooked or pretentious grin at your jokes, he finds them offending and he just tried to be polite.
79. Guys don’t care about how shiny their shoes are unlike girls.
80. Guys tend to generalize about girls but once they get to know
them,they’ll realize they’re wrong.

81. Any guy can handle his problems all by his own. He’s just too
stubborn to deal with it.

82. Guys find it so objectionable when a girl swears.
83. Guys’ weakest point is at the knee.
84. When a problem arises, a guy usually keeps himself cool but is
already thinking of a way out.

85. When a guy is conscious of his looks, it shows he is not good at
fixing things.

86. When a guy looks at you, either he’s amazed of you or he’s
criticizing you.

87. When you catch him cheating on you and he asks for a second chance,give it to him. But when you catch him again and he asks for another chance,ignore him.
88. If a guy lets you go, he really loves you.
89. If you have a boyfriend, and your boy best friend always glances at u and it obviously shows that he is jealous whenever you’re with your boyfriend, all I can say is your boy best friend loves you more than your boyfriend does.
90. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.
91. You can tell if a guy is really hurt or in pain when he cries in
front of you!

92. If a guy suddenly asks you for a date, ask him first why.
93. When a guy says he can’t sleep if he doesn’t hear your voice even just for one night, hang up. He also tells that to another girl. He only flatters you and sometimes makes fun of you.
94. You can truly say that a guy has good intentions if you see him
praying sometimes.

95. Guys seek for advice not from a guy but from a girl.
96. Girls are allowed to touch boys’ things. Not their hair!
97. If a guy says you’re beautiful, that guy likes you.
98. Guys hate girls who overreact.
99. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.

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shopping wiv mushy

Tuesday, December 27, 2005

juz today i put mushy to one of life’s relationship-tests.. i brought him shopping with me hihi. at first i was upset.. iniwan ba naman ako! guys..when yer gurl brings you to shopping.. its not coz we want u to buy us something (well thats fer my point of view, hmm), we juz want ur point of view on the things that we’re gonna buy…see guys, ur opinion matters to us!! so of corz naasar ako when he left me.. so ayun… tampo-tampo.. nagyaya ako sa ktv ayaw na naman.. but he did PROMISE me huh.. he said we will be going back to that before the year ends.. wheeee! so there.. then nagyaya magfrench fries daw kami.. eh ang layo ng mcdonalds… sakit na nga ng paa ko.. tapos tagal na naman dun.. buti na lang he got me sundae.. and he was soooo patient wiv me all through my moods… after that all was ok na after kinurot-kurot ko sya haha! eh ganun nga ako maglambing anoh.. haay.. so tell me.. how can i not love this guy?

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WISH YOU ENOUGH

Thursday, December 22, 2005

TAKE TIME TO LIVE…..
 
To all my friends and loved ones, WISH YOU ENOUGH
 
 
Recently I overheard a mother and daughter in their last moments  together at the airport. They had announced the departure. Standing near the security gate, they hugged and the mother said, “I love you and I wish you  enough.”
 
The daughter replied, “Mom, our life together has been more than enough. Your love is all I ever needed. I wish you enough, too, Mom.”
 
They kissed and the daughter left. The mother walked over to the window where I was seated. Standing there I could see she wanted and needed to cry. I tried not to intrude on her privacy but she welcomed me in by  asking,
 
 ”Did you ever say good-bye to someone knowing it would be forever?”.
 
  “Yes, I have,” I replied. “Forgive me for asking, but why is this a forever good-bye?”.
 
 ”I am old and she lives so far away. I have challenges ahead and the reality is - the next trip back will be for my funeral,” she said.
 
 ”When you were saying good-bye, I heard you say, ‘I wish you enough.’ May  I  ask what that means?”.
 
She began to smile. “That’s a wish that has been handed down from other generations. My parents used to say it to everyone.”
 
She paused a moment and looked up as if trying to remember it in detail and she smiled even more. “When we said , ‘I wish you enough’, we were wanting the other person to have a life filled with just enough good things to sustain them.”
 
Then turning toward me, she shared the following as if she were reciting it from memory.
  

 I wish you enough sun to keep your attitude bright.

 I wish you enough rain to appreciate the sun more.

 I wish you enough happiness to keep your spirit alive.

 I wish you enough pain
so that the smallest joys in life appear much bigger.

 I wish you enough gain to satisfy your wanting.

 I wish you enough loss to appreciate all that you possess.

 I wish you enough hellos to get you through the final good-bye.

 
 
She then began to cry and walked away.
 

They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them, but then an entire life to forget them.
 
Send this to the people you will never forget. If you don’t send it to anyone it may mean that you are in such a hurry that you have forgotten your friends.

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crap!

its weird how some days dont work out and some days are  like beds of roses.. as of right now? its officially freakin-fucked-up-day. it started with really shitty calls from really stupid callers. im usually patient and happy in my disposition while taking in calls but i guess stress, stubbornness and problems got the better of me today. sa inis ko naiiyak na nga ako eh. my coach probly felt my frustration and he let me take a break even if i already did take my break.. aux 7! so i went to the bathroom and i juz let it all out.. thats really how i am. pag inis na inis na talga ako i cry. i juz felt so drained and stressed and so fed up with work at that time that i really felt like giving up. had i not gone to the bathroom i probly wouldve walked out already in the heat of the moment. this has the first time that i my emotions got the better of me. weird thing though, after a few mins of outbursts of tears, i couldnt stop crying…i dunno why.. that was so weird.. i was like telling myself to stop crying but tears juz kept flowing. *sigh* do all of the people really go through those stages? ive always loved my job regardless of how shitty other people may think of it. i actually enjoy what im doing. but last nite.. it was different.. whew.. that was somethin different.. hope i dont see that side of me again… =). as for now.. i am, little by little, trying to put a smile on my face for everything.

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Handi-CAPABLE

Wednesday, December 21, 2005

** this was sent to me by a friend.. its hilarious! hihi  

 

Two deaf people get married. During the first week of marriage, they find that they are unable to communicate in the bedroom when they turn off the lights (because they can’t see each other using sign language).

After several nights of fumbling around and misunderstandings, the wife proposes a solution. “Honey,” she signs, “Why don’t we agree on some simple signals? For instance, at night, if you want to have sex with me, reach over and squeeze my left breast one time. If you don’t want to have sex, reach over and squeeze my right breast one time.”

The husband thinks this is a great idea and signs back to his wife, “Great idea! Now if you want to have sex with ME, reach over and pull on my penis one time.”

“And if you don’t want to have sex, reach over and pull on my penis… fifty times!”

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Beautiful Women Month

Tuesday, December 20, 2005

HELLO, Beautiful!!!!

Did you know that it’s Beautiful Women Month?

Well, it is and that means you and me. I’m supposed to send this to FIVE BEAUTIFUL WOMEN, and you are one of them!!!

Facts on Figures: There are 3 billion women who don’t look like super models and only eight who do.

Did you know Marilyn Monroe wore a size 14?

If Barbie was a real woman, she’d have to walk on all FOURS due to her proportions!


The average woman weighs 144 pounds, and wears between a size 12-14..

One out of every 4 college-aged women has an eating disorder.

The Models in the magazines are AIRBRUSHED!!! - NOT Perfect!!

A psychological study in 1995 found that 3 minutes spent looking at a Fashion Magazine caused
70% of women to feel depressed, guilty and SHAMEFUL!

Models 20 years ago weighed 8% Less than the average Woman.

Today they weigh 23% less…… [Image removed]

~~ Beauty  of  a  Woman ~~
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears,
The figure she carries, or the way she combs her hair.
The beauty of a woman must be seen from her eyes,
Because that is the doorway to her heart,
The place where love resides.
The beauty of a woman is not in a facial mole,
But true beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul.
It is the caring that she lovingly gives,
The passion that she shows.
The beauty of a woman
With time, only grows..


An English professor wrote the words: “WOMAN WITHOUT HER MAN IS NOTHING” on the blackboard, and directed the students to punctuate it correctly

The men wrote: “Woman, WITHOUT HER ! MAN, is nothing.”

The women wrote:
“WOMAN!! WITHOUT HER, man is nothing!”

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~ whew ~

my first call today was kinda shitty… there was this caller who was very upset because her package was supposed to be sent overnight but she still doesnt have it yet. the first thing that she asked me was if i was located in the US. the caller was bitching on how the company i was working for fired the people in the US to give jobs to people outside the country. AND IS THAT SUPPOSED TO BE MY FAULT?!! So why does she go bitching on me?!! im juz the one unfortunate one who took her freakin call!

after getting the whole story, i guess she does have a right to get mad.. the caller has called few times and she always kept getting disconnected, unfortunately no one called her back. so i made sure that i did transfer her to the right department. after that.. she wished me happy holidays… 

see what patience and calm can do! haha! it does create wonders! i shud do that more often.. other than being an irate agent hahaha

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HOW TO LOVE

Sunday, December 18, 2005

1.To My Friends Who Are………..SINGLE

Love is like a butterfly . The more you chase it , the more it eludes you. But if you just let it fly, it will come to you when you least expect it. Love can make you happy but often it hurts , but love’s only special when you give it to someone who is really worth it. So take your time and choose the best.

2.To My Friends Who Are…………NOT SO SINGLE

Love isn’t about becoming somebody else’s “perfect person.” It’s about finding someone who helps you become the best person you can be.

3.To My Friends Who Are…………PLAYBOY/GIRL TYPE

Never say “I love you” if you don’t care. Never talk about feelings if they aren’t there. Never touch a life if you mean to break a heart . Never look in the eye when all you do is lie. The cruelest thing a guy can do to a girl is to let her fall in love when he doesn’t intend to catch her fall and it works both ways…

4.To My Friends Who Are…………MARRIED

Love is not about “it’s your fault”, but “I’m sorry.” Not “where are you”, but “I’m right here.” Not “how could you”, but “I understand.” Not “I wish you were”, but “! I’m thankful you are.”

5.To My Friends Who Are…………ENGAGED

The true measure of compatibility is not the years spent together but how good you are for each other.

6.To My Friends Who Are…………HEARTBROKEN

Heartbreaks last as long as you want and cut as deep as you allow them to go. The challenge is not how to survive heartbreaks but to learn from them .

7.To My Friends Who Are…………NAIVE

How to be in love: Fall but don’t stumble, be consistent but not too persistent, share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand, and get hurt but never keep the pain.

8.To My Friends Who Are…………POSSESSIVE

It breaks your heart to see the one you love happy with someone else but it’s more painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you.

9.To My Friends Who Are…………AFRAID TO CONFESS

Love hurts when you break up with someone. It hurts even more when someone breaks up with you. But love hurts the most when the person you love has no idea how you feel.

10.To My Friends Who Are…………STILL HOLDING ON

A sad thing about life is when you meet someone and fall in love, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and that you have wasted years on someone who wasn’t worth it. If he isn’t worth it now he’s not going to be worth it a year or 10 years from now. Let go…..

11.TO ALL MY FRIENDS…….

My wish for you is a man/women whose love is honest, strong, mature , never-changing, uplifting, protective, encouraging, rewarding and unselfish. You’d need all the luck you can get! hahA!

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~ L I F E ~

Saturday, December 17, 2005

Three things in life that,
once gone
never comes back -
Time, Words & Opportunity

Three things in life that may never be lost -
Peace, Hope & Honesty.

Three things in life that are most valuable - 
Love, Faith & Prayer

Three things in life that are never certain -
Dreams, Success & Fortune

Three things that make a man -
Hard work, Sincerity & Commitment 

Three things in life that can destroy a man -
Lust, Pride & Anger

Three things that are truly constant -
Father, Son and Holy Ghost

I ask the Lord to bless you,
as I pray for you today;
to guide you and protect you,

as you go along your way.
His love is always with you,

His promises are true.
And when you give Him all your cares,

you know He’ll see you through.

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for mushy

when its one of those days…

when i dont feel like feeling

or trying at all

when life looks too hard

and the road seems to long

when im broken in a hundred pieces

sumh0w

wiv the little things you do

you pick me up

and put me back together again

and make me smile

juz like that

thank you fer being there…

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10 SIGNS THAT SHOW THAT YER INLOVE DAW!!

10. PAG NANDYAN SYA, YER KILIG TO THE BONES. (lagi naman.. marinig nga lang ang boses eh..)

9. HUMIHINTO ANG ORAS PAG KASAMA MO SYA!(exactly!)

8. UMIIYAK KA NG WALANG DAHILAN PAG INIICP MO SYA..LABO NOH?(hindi kaya baliw un other than inlove? lol.. di naman ako ganun, mushy lang talga ako hehe)

7. SOBRANG SENTI KA NA..(lagi naman akong senti.. am a hopeless romantic…)

6. SYA LANG LAMAN NG INBOX MO AT MULA UMAGA HANGANG GABI XA LANG KATXT MO.. (mismo!)

5. MUKHANG TANGA KA KASI SYA LANG LAGI MONG BINABANGIT. (you shud ask my friends fer that)

4. BIGLA KA NLNG MAPAPANGITI PAG NAICP MO XA..(yeah.. happens all the time.. minsan pa nga kahit hindi sya kausap ko.. naiisip ko kung ano ung sasabihin nya if he was there wiv me..)

3. LAGI MO NLNG TINITIGNAN PICTURE NYA.(hindi naman..i have a photographic memry..so i dont havta look at his pic)

2. NAKAKAASAR KASI NATATAWA KA SA SARILI MO..(correct!!! hahaha)

1. HANDA KA GAWIN LAHAT KAHIT MAMATAY PARA SA KANYA..(ahm..wag naman…if that was the case.. i would rather live fer him.. other than die fer him.. mas marami akong magagawa kaysa pag namatay ako.. diba?)

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~ sigh ~

At times the days seemed so long, I thought I’d never make it through,
Then suddenly, out of a dream, I have met someone like you.
I had locked up all my feelings and I’d thrown away the key,
Until your heart spoke a thousand words I knew were meant to be.
When times turned rough and lonely, and despair fell upon my face,
You comforted me and kept me safe in that loving special place.
You don’t realize what you have and what you’ve done for me,
But the way you managed to steal my heart is what has set me free.
You’ve given me a feeling that no one else could ever change,
Your love has touched a place in me that I always found so strange.
It’s as if you were cut right out of a spell cast upon my heart,
Because the crazy thing about it is, I’ve loved you from the start.
No one in this wide world could touch the feelings we share;
To the seconds I spend with you, nothing can compare.
You’ve opened my eyes and heart just enough and let me live,
You’ve changed my world with magic and the kindness that you give.
My heart was broken, and I thought love was so far away,
But you came into my life and showed me a better day.
Like crystal clear blue waters or a magical sunset,
That moment speaks a thousand words to which no price can be met.
I wish I could just stop time and spend the whole night in your eyes,
For when I’m with you there’s a feeling even I cannot describe.
Although my heart holds painful memories that will never be erased,
You touch me with a love so strong it hides that lonely place.
Heartbreak, loss and misery were all I ever knew,
Until someone showed me happiness and that someone was you.
Your gentle words and loving arms lift me up when I am down,
And with all you’ve done for me you’ve turned my world around.
Your love is so consistent, like the waves that break on shore,
And with every day my love for you still grows, just more and more.
When broken dreams still fill my days and nothings going right,
You reassure me with your smile and give me back my sight.
You sweep a spell across my heart, like a breeze across the sea,
And you fill my world with beautiful dreams & feelings meant to be.
The way you live, the way you love and even so much more,
With every smile that you give, you’re all I could ask for.
You are in every breath I take and in every tear I cry,
You’re in every star I wish upon up in the lonely sky.

Every day with you is heaven, like an angel from above,
A million magic moments sent- to give you all my love.
You are living proof that prayers and dreams really do come true,
And I thank God for that special day he blessed my heart with you.
I could speak of a thousand promises or even bet my very soul,
the rest of my life, I’ll be touched with a feeling no one can control.
Fate, destiny or magic may be the reason that we met,
But all I know is the days with you I never will forget.
Until the day I found you I never knew a love so true,
But from today until eternity I swear I’ll be loving you.

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HOW MEN ARE LIKE

1. Men are like Laxatives ……
    They irritate the shit out  of you.

2. Men are like Bananas ……
    The older they get,  the less firm they are.

3. Men are like the Weather …..
    Nothing can be done to change them.

4. Men are like Blenders  …..
    You need One, but your not quite sure  why.

5. Men  are like Chocolate Bars ….
    Sweet, smooth, & they usually head  right for your hips.

6. Men are like Commercials ……
    You can’t believe a word they say.

7. Men are like Department Stores  …..
    Their clothes are always 1/2 off.

8. Men are like Government Bonds …..
    They take soooooooo long to mature.

9. Men are  like Mascara ……
    They usually run at the first sign of  emotion.

10. Men are like Popcorn . …..
    They satisfy you, but only for a little while.

11. Men are like  Snowstorms …..
      You  never know when they’re coming, how many inches you’ll get or how long it  will last.

12. Men are like Lava Lamps …..
     Fun to look at, but  not very bright.

13. Men are like Parking Spots……
     All the  good ones are taken, the rest are  handicapped.
 
** pls dont think im sexist or something? dont get the wrong idea.. were juz having some laughs here hehe 

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on love again

When you think of your past love, you may view it as a failure. But when you find a new love, you view the past as a teacher. In the game of love, it doesn’t really matter who won or who lost. What is important is you know when to hold on and when to let go!

You know you really love someone when you want him or her to be happy, even if his or her happiness means that you’re not part of it.

Everything happens for the best. If the person you love doesn’t love you back, don’t be afraid to love someone else again, for you’ll never know unless you give it a try. You’ll never love a person you love unless you risk for love.


Love strives in hurting.

If you don’t get hurt, you don’t learn how to love.


Love doesn’t hurt all the time, though the hurting is still there to test you and to help you grow. Don’t find love, let love find you. That’s why it’s called falling in love because you don’t force yourself to fall. You just fall.

 
You cannot finish a book without closing its chapters. If you want to go on, then you have to leave the past as you turn the pages. Love is not destroyed by a single failure or won by a single caress. It is a lifetime venture in which we are always learning, discovering and growing.


The greatest irony of love is letting go when you need to hold on and holding on when you need to let go.

We lose someone we love only when we are destined to find someone else who can love us even more than we can love ourselves.


On falling out of love, take some time to heal and then get back on the horse. But don’t ever make the same mistake of riding the same one that threw you the first time.

To love is to risk rejections; to live is to risk dying, to hope is to risk failure. But risk must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is risking nothing!


To reach for another is to risk involvement,                               to expose your feelings is to expose true self;

to love is to risk not to be loved in return.



How to define love:
fall but do not stumble,
be constant but not too persistent,
share and never be unfair,
understand and try not to demand,
hurt but never keep the pain.

Love is like a knife. It can stab the heart or it can carve wonderful images into the soul that always last for a lifetime.

Love is supposed to be the most wonderful feeling. It should inspire you and give you joy and strength. But sometimes the things that give you joy can also hurt you in the end.

Loving people means giving them the freedom that they choose to be and where they choose to be. For all the heartaches and the tears, for gloomy days and fruitless years, you should give thanks, for you know, that these were the things which helped you grow.

Loving someone means giving him the freedom to find his way, whether it leads towards you or away from you. Love is a painful risk to take but the risk must be taken no matter how scary or painful, for only then you’ll experience the fullness of humanity and that is love.

Only love can hurt your heart, fill you with desire and tear you apart. Only love can make you cry and only love knows why. If you’re not ready to cry, if you’re not ready to take the risk, if you’re not ready to feel the pain, then you’re not ready to fall in love.

There was a time in our lives when we became afraid to fall in love because every time we do, we get hurt, then I figured that’s why it’s called falling in love. When you decide to love, allow it to grow. When you promise to love, refuse to let it die!

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on destiny

 
The fact that there’s a person meant for you to be with for the rest of your life is evil! - from the movie “Before Sunset”

 
Uhuh got that quote from the movie. I dont think i got it in verbatim but more or less thats what it meant. shocking huh, her views, but in a way she does have a point. i guess it is evil coz it makes you hope. it makes you look forward to this one perfect guy for you to wait for. heck! balogney i say. thats why fairytales are for kids… so you wont have to mess up yer life waiting fer that one true love… coz in reality.. it doesnt happen!! newsflash..there are more women than men, not to mention the gays who are actually competing wiv women fer the guys’ attention. oh well…who cares. am juz tired of fairytales and love stories gone awry…from now on i make the guy i want my destiny…i choose my soulmate. who cares about what people say? if i love him, that makes him ‘the one’

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of love and friendship

 
they say that friendship can turn into love, but love into friendship? never!
 

i guess it would depend on how the couple parted. sum people think that its better to juz separate in bad terms, at least that would make forgetting easier.

but then again.. think of all the fun times youve been through. for me id never want to ferget that. the fact that i loved sumone that much is reason enough fer me to stay, in a certain degree, in love wiv him. its kinda hard to explain. what i really mean is that that person would always be close to my heart. it doesnt matter why you parted…what has been said or done…you always have a choice.
 
loving, fer me, is a more of a choice and juz a mere fleeting feeling. yes there are strong emotions…yes you feel like youd be sick to yer stomach sumtimes.. but then again.. the bottom line is… you love this person.
but if its really not working anymore… then perhaps it really is better to be friends than lovers. its better to choose the bitterness of goodbye than to hear the sweetest lie.

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THE LOVE TEST

Friday, December 16, 2005


True Love

True Love

Take The Love Test today!


Created with Rum and Monkey’s Personality Test Generator.

 
Cue the Tchaikovsky music–you’re in love. If your friends and family members aren’t already sick of hearing you talk about your significant other, they will be soon. You are the envy of every single person,
so don’t flaunt it too much. Enjoy the happily ever after!

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hunn

Thursday, December 15, 2005

mushy sorry bout yer phone bill.

promise i wont be so kulit nymore.

LOVE YOU MUCH. 

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what my name means

** got this at friendster. this is what my name means daw 

M- success comes easily for you (really now)
A- You always want some action (oh yeah)
R- You are a social butterfly (most of the time)
I- love is something you deeply believe in (sometimes)
E- You are popular with all types of people (i am?)

J - Everyone loves you (hope so)
U- you usually r hella tight (i want to think so haha!)
D- You have trouble trusting people (its actually the other way around)
I- love is something you deeply believe in (hhmm)
T - You have an attitude, a big one (i object!)
H - you have very good personality and looks (i do?)

R- You are a social butterfly (*flutter* *flutter*)
I- love is something you deeply believe in (i try to)
T - You have an attitude, a big one (nope!)
A- You always want some action (corz!)

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> A- You always want some action.
> B - You are always cautious when it comes to
> meeting new people.
> C - You definitely have a partier side in you
> D- You have trouble trusting people.
> E- You are popular with all types of people
> F - Fake.
> G - You are very friendly and undestanding
> H - you have very good personality and looks
> I- love is something you deeply believe in
> J - Everyone loves you.
> K - You like to try new things.
> L - You are always smiling and making others smile.
> M- succes comes easily for you
> N - You can be very “FUN”
> O- You love foreplay
> P - You are very friendly and undestanding
> Q - You are a hypocrite.
> R- You are a social butterfly
> S - People think you are sexy, especially your bf/gf
> T - You have an attitude, a big one.
> U- you usually r hella tight
> V - you are not judgemental
> W - You are very broad minded.
> X - You never let people tell you what to do.
> Y- you always make every experience Great
> Z- You’re uber cool

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